Guard Your Heart / Mind
Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.
Revelation 3:20
Above all else protect your heart (your mind). Who are you going to allow into your mind and spend time with. If you listen for God's guidance, He will spend time with you and help you out.
Listen because the important part here is if ANY MAN hear; meaning anyone that is willing to listen and open their mind/heart to Christ can learn His ways. He will spend time with you as intimate as having a great conversation over a meal together. You are part of the family.